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The "normal" version:
Yep. All generic VNC software will conflict with ARD. This is a good note for most admins out there.

The "geek" version:
Tell RealVNC to use port 5901. Look at the "Connection Options" section of the documentation for your server-side os/version.

The "too much information?" version:
Actually, VNC servers and ARD do just fine side by side. (Aside from
listening and bonjour advertising and that), both servers are actually
inactive until they receive a connection request. The clincher is that
any services ...from Apache to ARD reports to SMB to VNC... always need
to be listening to different sockets on different ports. In the good
old days, VNC servers could actually listen on several ports and would
serve at different color depths and resolutions based on the port
number of an incoming request. In fact even today, because ARD uses a
mostly standards-compliant VNC implementation, it has to use a
different port for reports and commands and such so it won't conflict
with the inbuilt VNC server.

VNC is usually on port 5900 nowadays. ARD uses 5900 for its VNC without
asking. ARD also uses (or has used) 3283, 5432, 5433, and 5988 for
reports and other non-VNC communication. (See: Apple's list of common ports.) In my experience, ARD's VNC client can very reliably control standards-compliant VNC servers, though your mileage may vary.

• • To control a non-ARD VNC server via ARD, just do whatever you
    normally would in ARD. When controlling, it may warn you that the VNC
    server doesn't support keystroke encryption, etc. but should still work
    fine.
  • To connect ARD to a VNC service running on a different port, choose
    "Add by Address… ⌥⇧⌘N" and in the address field, type the domain name
    or IP address as you normally would, but append a full colon ":" and
    the port number. For example, jsmith.example.com:5901 would connect to
    the computer named jsmith but would look for the VNC service on port
    5901.
  • To control a Mac which is running the OS's ARD-VNC server from a
    third-party VNC app, you must have 'plain' VNC access turned
    server-side (that is, on the Mac to be controlled: System Prefs >
    Sharing > Remote Management > Computer Settings > "VNC
    viewers…"). As long as you use a decent client, it should work reliably
    after that.

I routinely run the standard ARD "Remote Management" services on my
servers for normal remote interaction, but then have a Vine Server set
up on 5901 with vastly different settings to benefit low bandwidth
connections from the internet, from my iPod's VNC client, or through
bouncy ssh tunnels.

If you have any other experiences or questions, or especially if anyone
wants try any of this and encounters problems, by all means post back.

From: http://discussions.apple.com/thread.jspa?threadID=1722872&tstart=0