学步园

惭愧，简单的方法我绕了很久

 foreach (DataGridViewRow dgvr in dgvFunctionList.Rows)
                {
                   DataRow dr = (DataRow)dgvr.Tag;
                    if ( dr["funcn"].ToString().ToLower().Contains("sw"))

                    {
                        dgvr.Selected = true;
                        dgvFunctionList.CurrentCell = this.dgvFunctionList[0, dgvr.Index];
                        return;
                    }
                    //结束-----------------------------------
                }

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